Hey Rough, Busting and AT,

Do I ever know what you guys are talking about. I live in a country where westerners are a prize for most women so the temptation has been constant.

The thing is, as busting said, the only reason I'd do it would be for emotional/physical closeness, which I miss an awful lot right now, and this just wouldn't be right.

Besides, even though our Ss are (or might be) having A (EA,PA or whatever other kind of A there is) and don't seem to think there is anything wrong with it (in my case she told me that in her mind, we weren't married anymore), I have a feeling that if W found out I was, she'd freak and use that as THE excuse for filing for Divorce.

Strange world we find ourselves in, isn't it?

Rough, I agree with you on the kids. Thanks God for them. My girl is what keeps me in line.


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then