Wife in MLC? I'm seeking support / guidance

[Arsene]

I'm not sure who wrote that song but it sounds like it could have been my wife right now. That sounds so much like the way she seems to be feeling about us.

It looks like I've been at this a bit longer but my sitch is different as my wife moved out in May and is now seeing OM. We were together for 2 years after EA and I thought we'd made it through the toughest. Little did I know. I now wish I'd had DR while we were living together. She might have stayed if I had started DBing then.

All I'd say to you is try not to crowd her too much. If she wants space, give it to her and don't go too much out of your way to please her. She might think it's pathetic and might even take advantage of it. Bottom line, though, is if it's working for you don't stop. Every sitch is different and only you know your W.

Cheers mate!!