Read the DB book (again if you already have, so it sinks in and reinforces in your head)
and really back off for now. Give her space.
Being the best dad you can be is a great endeavor b/c it's what is right for the kids, it occupies your mind AND
I think it's an emotional turn on at some level, for every mother. OM cannot compete with that.
But stop showing her your neediness. IT is not attractive.
What were you like when she fell in love with you? I bet more confident & fun and light hearted and strong. Be THAT man again.
Be interestING and interestED in the world around you, take a class or join something so you are less predictable.
GAL and involve new people so you are more occupied, more happy and a bit more mysterious...and stop obsessing.
It is so unproductive. Stay in the present so you don't keep looping around in your brain about what she MIGHT be doing or thinking or WHEN something is going to happen.
YOU WILL KNOW WHEN SHE WANTS YOU TO MAKE A MOVE, with her words or her actions...
Turns out all your worry today was for nothing b/c she WAS working, correct?
Learn a lesson from that...stay in the "now" and do your best to be the best man you can be.
Become that man and DB your butt off...then leave the results up to God.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
