Hey mate,

I'll have to go with Denver on this one. In the end it's up to you how you play your cards and when you get to a point when you know you're done, you'll know it.

Till then, it won't hurt to stay positive in your outlook. Heck, what else have you got to do? Set your boundaries for yourself with your wife. Become a better man. Live your life and make it an exciting life filled with everything you've always wanted to do. In time, you're W might reconsider and if she does, you can always decide how you deal with it then. If she doesn't, well, aren't you living an exciting fun-filled life anyway?

All the best mate and we're with you all the way.

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then