I dont think I have ever posted to you but it's ncie to hear you came out of this intact...in your heart and with your new life... I am on my 6th yr. my ex has married o/w they have been together for 5yrs married this yr. And I know some will 2x4 me for saying this but I AM A STANDER and I will be till I am told otherwise by the Lord. I do have a life of my own do fun things,have friends.....but my heart still belongs to my husband....maybe one day that will change but for now I am doing what I know I should be doing.... Or maybe one day I will not be because what I see of my ex, he is not a very nice man anymore.....very selfish,and thinks only of himself But when that day comes I will know I gave it 100%....You deserve much happiness for what you have been thru, for all of us and I hope and pray we all have that again..... Take care and am so happy for you Irma
