Please also read through many other newcomer threads posted on here and you will see many similarities, not only with the situation, but the spouse who is pulling away actions and comments.

Most importantly, see how common the advice is.

Prayers to you, along with patience and strength.

Ed

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Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012