Not sure if this is going to work

[25yearsmlc]

Before I read your longer email, I'll say this: the pressure is from the belief that I could still be dating and me "mr. right" or take time off to explore where this is going with ExBF


I get that. But everyone has that exact pressure when deciding IF to reconcile or rebuild, etc. IT's "opportunity costs," to put it crassly...

I did want another child.

Yikes... that's sort of getting way way ahead of yourself, isn't it? And even if so, must it be with him?

B/C IF the r isn't sound, then how is your position with another child, any better or less vulnerable than it was a year ago?


And I do feel pressure to work on things with him, in a way. I'm just being honest.

I know that doesn't make sense, no one will agree with that, I should just forget it. But, here's the thing - It's true for me. And I'm being honest.

So maybe it's not as much pressure as I imagined.

So can you say WHY do you want to be with THIS man?