She came over and visited our boy. No Halloween decorations that she said were going to be hung were even asked about and she grabbed a few more personal things and left 1/2 hour sooner than she said she would visit for, because her sister needed someone to babysit her 2 kids.

The brother who lives in the same apartment building said no, because he had something else to do, but i guess my wife didn't figure being with her own son was as important as watching her sisters kids.

Yes, i am disappointed in her decision.

She was pretty cold, body language and talking wise, that instead of sitting on the same couch, even if she would have sat on the other end, she chose a folding chair on the far side of the living room.

I did not make any dinner. She said texted earlier in the afternoon that it might confuse our son and give him a false sign of hope.

I guess i was a worse husband to her than i ever realized. Even now, i still know in my heart that i tried to show her how much i cared for her each day, even on the days i felt disturbed by something she did.

Geez.!!!!!

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012