Lifejustgothard (I need to abbreviate that in the future... how about "Life"?) - I am taking a look at your sitch now... I'm tight on time though. I will definitely look later if I can't get it done now.

I just read this post on Life's thread and wanted to repost here for future reference...

Deal to make with W:

"If I say something that could be taken one of two ways, and one of those ways is hurtful? Please don't take it that way. If we want to hurt each other we know how too without being all passive aggresive. But let me know how I could say it better."

Thanks Jack!

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce