Although I'll WANT to ask her to stay, I'm not sure that's a good idea... Although it would show to her that I'm fighting (one of her biggest complaints since leaving) and that I'm not letting her go easily (another big complaint since she's left) It may also submarine my efforts to tell her there will be no contact between us so long as OM is around...
Yes, me not being an option is a large part of my boundary. No option, no OM.
HELL NO! Do NOT ask her to stay under any circumstances.
It will completely torpedo the boundary that you have been working on setting for the past several weeks.
Do not do this AT. I have other thoughts, and will post in a bit, but I felt the strong need to give you my opinion on this ASAP.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
