TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Thanks Tori for the permission to make the decision my Self. I thought I couldn't do that as I said I wouldn't spend our money without his agreement then I realised I can inform him that as I haven't heard from him and I want they can do it next wk, I've decided to spend some of my savings.
Tumbling
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"
Argh! I want to txt "sleep well" so I'm writing it here instead "Sleep well, H" Good night all Tumbling
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"
Tumbling, I'm happy to hear things are good for you today.
Good job being succint with your text. I think it shows he's thinking about you. Good sign. Remember to look at small signs of progress and celebrate them.
Last night he did text "night,night" so I thought I'd try saying the same thing in our old language of hangman. He came back with letters and dashes that spelt out "you always know how to make me smile x" As a good DBer I let him have that as the last one.
Like you, I was happy he text me but it sets expectations of something today and there wasn't. That's OK but it puzzles me...
Ok so I spoke to the contractor today and they can start work on the house two wks Monday.
> I would like this email reviewed for any wrong phrases, etc
BACKGROUND We decided that this work would be a good thing to do when we were in a good place all that time ago in May! Since then our happy place has turned upside down and we are basically in NC. I emailed H on Sunday about the cost and asked him to let me know if he was happy as I wouldn't spend our money without his agreement. I want it in an email so that I have records of spending. He hasnt replied. I don't want to sound impatient with his indecision etc as I think anything along those lines will make him ashamed of himself for not answering/letting me down etc.
What do you think?
Email text:
Hi H, The contractor called today and if the deposit is paid tomorrow, they can start two weeks Monday (yay!). Just so you know I'm going to pay the deposit from my account. Tumbling
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"
"If you are happy with the quote too, we can always make a transfer from the joint account later"
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"
