Saw W for the kids exchange. As usual, it was very brief. We talked about the kids then I asked her “how’s it going ?”, she responds with, “it’s going ok, how are you?”. I said “I am good.” Just a bunch of nothing if you ask me! I think she’s hurting when she says “I am ok” I probably should of said “I understand” oh well. As Acc says, it’s “distance chicken” and for now, I don’t plan on budging.
W texted me and left me a vm, it had to do with the kids and finances, nothing pressing though. I will be methodically responding with a short text around midnight tonight, I think I got that from AT or Denver a while ago, thanks guys!
Oh, I have some good news, I should be getting a bonus soon, that’s flat out awesome! It should be thousands and believe me, it’s much needed because I’ve been just treading water. When we separated 5 months ago W and I agreed that I will be giving her 25% of any bonus money. I have no problem with this because that’s what we agreed on.
I need to be very careful with the money. I’ve gone without for so long that I value the all mighty coin much more now! I need to be very methodical with any spending. Some of you might know that I took a major verbal beating a couple months ago for dishing out less than 100.00 for a much needed upgraded cell phone because my old one was on life support.