Yes I understand that too - we don't spend anytime together other than dinner. After my son is asleep we don't spend anytime together.

I thank you for your help

My DB coach says that there is still hope because wanting to do all this stuff around the house, has not moved on the divorce walk away spouses do not do work around the house they just leave -- she also says this will take a long time but we have to take babysteps. I can't stand the waiting but I always put up the happy guy she never sees me sweat though I did lose my temper once in the past couple of weeks I have been clean otherwise. Seeing such a kind loving moral person slide like this is so hard. I am having a hard time with the potential infidelity too. I miss ,my wife very much. I wish she would just come back to our bedroom !!! I don't care if we hug kiss or have sex but I still find it hard to sleep without her.

I am going out Friday and Saturday so I should have a nice weekend thanks for all your help Cadet.


Sunny

If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it.
I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!