best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

The only thing she has mentioned is that I am controlling. Also her love language is words of affirmation, and I know is wasn't very supportive of what she wanted. The question is how do I show any of those things when we aren't together? I don't want to seem needy, or seem as if I am sucking up. When the time seems right I do give her compliments, and WOA. It seems the only way to be supportive right now is to let her go.