I am not afraid of him, altho it scares me when he yells at our daughter. There has never been any physical or emotional abuse at all and he doesn't tell me what to do at all either, never has. We've never had a relationship like that, it has always been very respectful of each other. I think he knows I am afraid to lose him for good. But I really don't know what he thinks right now whatsoever. What do you mean by : "if you were to pursue it would be in a way that you used to distance"
