Snooping to me is a good thing - this is one thing I don't understand -- she's my wife if I find out she is cheating it makes my decisions to stay and fight considerably different.
What seems to me like she is trying to punish us so badly - I don't get it I really don't.
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!