So i know i am making this harder that it has to be. If you look a bunch of posts back you will see that I agreed with her and was supporting her decision to move forward with what she wanted. The i recived a reaponce that made me feel like i had given up and i should not really be so supportive about the divorce and i could still save my marriage. That kind of sent me into spiral and trying to make this date more than it is.
Don't agree (or disagree) with her if she's pushing for divorce. You can validate her feelings without agreeing with her. If she is pushing for D, just say you understand why she feels that way and let it go. Many WAS's bring D up over and over again but don't really want it when it comes down to it.
I'd quit calling this a "date" and think of it more as a "get together" or something. You're stressing way too much over it and you'll feel so much pressure to impress her that you'll likely crash and burn instead. You're hanging too much on this one outing. You are not going to turn this train wreck around with this one event. You're in a marathon, not a sprint. Good luck!
