Help, ok have had an up n down day. But now w looking at properties that way exceed her benefits entitlement. At the moment I am on a complete downer about whole sitch and feel like giving her a deadline by which to move out and making it clear I will not be contributing towards her rent etc.
Starting to get paranoid there maybe an om as well. Grief I need to get a grip - felt positive earlier n then come crashing down! Getting really angry with w n trying to hold it in.
She seems to have it all planned out, how we will remain friends, how I will go to her placer and help with bedtime etc, how in the future we can spend time together as a family etc. My gut reaction is to tell her that if she wants to move out then she is oin her own. But then I can't do that to my S and wld like to be involved as much as poss!
