Originally Posted By: ForMyHusband
I saw my therapist this morning and basically she said if I want to continue then to continue as I am doing - wait. Do not ask any questions about OW, or about "us", and just keep trying to show him the real me and that I am not going anywhere.

Right this minute I agree with your therapist.
DO NOTHING.

I am not telling you to turn into a B!t**
You really need to get to a place where this all can just roll off
your back like water off a duck.
Detachment is for YOU.
So you can gain strength and not be bothered by what he DOES.

Keep reading, learning and posting.


Me-70, D37,S36