Hey AT, Wow, what an overwhelming call. It sounds like you did the right things, listening, avoiding R talk, controlling your emotions, etc….Yes, I can imagine the sinking feeling of W viewing things as being over. It sounds like she wants to be your bff, fu!ck that! I also believe your W is saying some things to you to try and relieve her guilt; my W has done the same. I really like what chatter said about having self-respect and only wanting a women that wants to be with me, nothing less. Hang in there my friend.
