How will you feel if she cancels?

If you're detached enough, it won't matter. You might have a momentary "D@mn!" but then its gone.

If you're detached you could go out on a date every night with her and you wouldn't be an emotional roller coaster based on what she said or did.

You're putting your whole future with her on this one date, that's a lot of pressure. If you were truly detached this would just be a fun get together, not your whole future.

She knows you don't want a D. There's no need to bring it up.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss