Last night my W said that she was sad. I inquirered as to what and she said that she missed her "friend". Meaning the OM. After some inital defensiveness i listened to jer feelings. Needless to say it did not make me feel much better, but I was patient and calm and this morning she thanked me flr letting her get that out. I need her to feel like she can talk to me, but i don't know how I am supposed to feel. Is this positive?
