Still together but trying to save this

[PeteWyo]

The tough thing for me to accept is the timing of everything. She was unhappy in our marriage and knew something needed to change. Knowing what I know now and what I am realizing about my behavior, I couldn't agree more. Then the OM ex finds and sends out the emails to everyone. Then she had all sorts of people trying to tell her what to do (including me in the beginning). Then she leaves and isn't staying at home. All this happened in like 2 months. I didn't have a chance to stop panicking and do the right thing before all that went down. I know I still have that chance now, but it all happened so quickly for me! And yes I understand she has felt this way for a while I'm just stating things from my perspective. It doesn't change my plan or my resolve, just venting I guess...