Breakdown, you are right. We are the ones that control our emotions and I'm doing a pretty crappy job of it right now. You are also right that after the "new" wears off, the same unresolved issues arise.
LA, it sounds like a little bit of a better night. I hope that the talk really does help you in the long run.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together