Leave it alone. She's confused and won't be able to give you a proper answer.
^^^This!
Originally Posted By: 7720
Thanks so much I really needed to hear that...most of my friends just say it is over, divorce her...I need to get strong...the OM is a threat...
That's pretty typical. Many C's will say much the same. This site, Michele's books and her DB coaches are the rare exceptions that push for saving the M.
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ok I just feel so bad right now..want to have R talk with her but i know it is not right..
You're right, it would be extremely harmful. It will just remind her that you and she are not on the same page. Print out the 34 DB 180 tips and read them constantly to remind yourself what your gameplan is!
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I am not Gal at all..stumbling through life right now...need to focus on something different....
It's OK, we've all been there. It's a normal part of the process. This would be a good time to reach out to old friends, go shopping, take on a project around the house, work on your car, go for a walk, join a gym, etc. etc. Occupy yourself. It may not work immediately, but it DOES work. I can attest to it!
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i just wish I knew if I had a chance at getting back together....I feel like that is slipping away......
There's always hope. Dig through the forums and read the reconciliation stories, that's what I do when I feel hope slipping away. There are many inspiring stories here, people that were in far more dire sitches that still reconciled.
