Also (again, I apologize for the multiple posts), does it mean anything if he is introducing OW to "our" friends? I am not sure if he is or not but I think 2 weeks ago when he went away for the weekend he said he was going to our friends house who live about 2 hours away. I think she went with him. I'm not entirely sure tho. She took up one of his hobbies (while hanging around another married man who hangs around with my husband) so he's been hanging out with her with mutual friends there as well (skeet shooting). But she's been "hanging around" for about 2 years now, it only "became" something about a month ago when she found out we separated. I know she has nothing to do with this at all but its hard not to think of why she would want to involve herslef in a situation like this. She is 8 years younger than him, lonely and has no friends. And of course I have no idea what he is telling her at all.