JKS this is such a great idea! I've also don't want my kids to lose the true meaning of Christmas. I had always envisioned it as a time to be with family and to give to others.

With a 4yo and a 1yo I'm going to come up with something. Thanks for the idea ;-)

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017