I do not want to justify or excuse her affairs,, but at the time that her mom initially went into the hospital, she contacted her old boyfriend who was her 1st sex partner from when she was 17 years old. He had made contact with her during her school bus route 5 years earlier dropping his nephew to the bus stop. He had asked her out for coffee or whatever. My wife at that time had appropriate boundaries and told him no and also told me about it and that she felt it would not be right, even though he had told her it was alright with his wife at the time supposedly told him it was okay to meet and be friends with other women. That was his 2nd wife and he was going through a divorce when my wife contacted him to let him know about her mothers illness, because she supposedly liked him those many years ago

My wife was going through s major depression at that time and this guy took advantage of her fragile emotional state at that time


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012