Hud and Pam, Thanks for coming by my friends! Work + school have been hellish this week so thank goodness for HOME and H and you guys!

Postives:
1. have been getting great phone calls from h. He's been very expressive and loving.

2. last night h asked me for a "big hug". we've both been super busy lately and I love how we're BOTH seeing "gosh, we need to carve off some time together". It makes me feel really good when HE notices, too.

3. I realized today that I've been wanting/missing more physical contact with h in the last few weeks and that I had actually sort of pulled away/cordoned myself off as a result...now THAT'S not good (of course) but the positive here is that I was able to DETECT it. I don't know if it sounds weird but now I know to put some extra effort into physical closeness with h.

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.