best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

So tonight I put the kids to bed at my W's place and when she got home she seemed cold towards me. She rarely makes eye contact and is very withdrawn. I have read in a few posts that you will know when it is right to talk about certain things. I know we are nowhere near R talk, but I am wondering if I should be asking about why she acts this way towards me? Instinct tells me to ask, but the DB in me tells me to let it go. Let her come to me. After all I don't need her in my life right now. It seems we both need to get happy on our own before a new R would work. Like I have said before, most of the time I feel I am closer to true happiness than she is. After all it has been awhile since I acted cold towards her.