"I don't want to give up but really don't see how I can stop her from doing what she has her mind set on."

You don't. You let her fall herself.

"I have made tremendous improvements in myself and my life. I have given her space only to find her starting to date another."

I like how she said she has to do right by her sons and then goes out with someone else.

The main problem is that your family never fully bonded. She naively believed that it would just magically happen. It takes twice the effort to blend a family then starting from scratch.

Why did she leave her first H?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER