Hi Busting. Good mantra to have, I think.

Today's observation is about how awkward it is for me to have P at my house while I'm on the road and not do daily phone calls. She called about a specific project question yesterday and I called back, then followed up with an email last night that was basically just a check-in. She emailed a status update this morning.

I realize that I have an expectation of daily contact. P made it clear when she left that she doesn't want that, so I need to continually remind myself of that reality as the context slightly changes and I'm tempted to reach out.


Me - 54
P - 59
Together 5 yrs
She left 4/2012