My H is the same way sometimes. It is very irritating and causes jealousy. And when you are going through what you are going through, it can make you pretty insecure. I think that is a reason why I am so insecure now. Having H put other womens' opinions above mine. Maybe that's selfish, I don't know.
Hopeful, I'm going to disagree with you on this one.
Originally Posted By: hopefulinga
causes jealousy.
Originally Posted By: hopefulinga
it can make you pretty insecure
The assumption you are making in these statements is that someone else actions can control your feelings. One of the things I've learned is that we control ourselves. If someone else is controlling you, it's because you let them.
I'm not saying your H or LA's H is making the right choices any more than I'm saying my W hanging out with guys drinking is ok, but my jealousy and insecurity come from a different place....I had it long before I met my W.
