Take today for instance. We had little to no contact all day. None (except for calling her to fill her in on our internet sitch) was initiated by me. She popped an ily in a convo to which I didn't respond. Then we go about our day and at the end of it I come home she goes to work out with sil. We have dinner watch a show, have some desert and now she is taking a shower and we will go to bed.

While I maintained my distance at home and away I am not changing my behavior of what I would do if I were living home alone. Is this detaching or pulling back or am I misinterpreting it?


Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
Band-aid Jan 11'
ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12