"She has said that I did not give her the words of affection or acts of affection that she needed in the past. And now that I am she doesn't seem ready for them. Also an attempt at 180. "
I have a feeling now you're probably overdoing it. Just give her an honest compliment here and there so that they sound sincere.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.