You can be short and to the point and still be nice. If you act like a d@ck around her, who wants to go out with a d@ck?
"She said she thought I was stalking her and she was somewhat fearful of me and that is why she was acting funny and standoffish all of a sudden."
Forget about this. It's all spew. When my W first left, she claimed she was "afraid" of me and so wanted to meet me only in public places. I had never done anything to harm her and we barely even had arguments. It's meant to deflect blame onto you, kind of like putting themselves in a fetal position so you end up being the bad guy rather than her having to deal things herself. Easier to blame someone else rather than looking within.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.