My H is the same way sometimes. It is very irritating and causes jealousy. And when you are going through what you are going through, it can make you pretty insecure. I think that is a reason why I am so insecure now. Having H put other womens' opinions above mine. Maybe that's selfish, I don't know.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together