I love that idea about one good thing/one bad thing. Do you do this for things only in general or do you focus it at times on each other?
Nik -- well we've only done the good/bad thing a few times so I'm not sure we've got a pattern going...All my comments have been unrelated to H or the M...and that's the way I'll definitely keep it in relation to the BAD (I might use the "good" to highlight something that he's done, though). I just think it would reduce the amount of conversation we'll have if I used the "bad" time to talk about him or R.
Sage
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