I didn't like the neighbor scenario when you wrote about it after the last party. But then again, I'm ultra suspicious and was putting myself in your shoes and how I would react. So, keep your guard up but don't go over board.
I've been reading the 5LL and making notes on things I can do that I think my H will respond to, but haven't gotten to chapter 12. I may have to skip ahead. Reading 5LL brought tears to my eyes earlier today because I recognized how empty my love bank really is.
My H is all over the board as well. He's starting to become my grumpy old man. My H is reverting as well. All I can think of is mistrust that we will go back to our old ways and they are being cautious not to let us too far in.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
