I'm also going to look up the 5 languages of love. Its suppose to go into different ways to show affection. My H won't let me show him "physical" affection now so I have to figure out different ways to do this.
Yes that is a great book and you can figure out what your LL is and also maybe what his is. It was interesting that even when my wife was not speaking I still knew what he LL was and that she could speak to me that way, with NO WORDS.
