Sage,

I love that idea about one good thing/one bad thing. Do you do this for things only in general or do you focus it at times on each other?

I asked H how the week went and if there was anything that bothered him re:me. That was last weekend. I was thinking of checking in with each other 1x/week. I definately think a good thing needs to offset the bad thing.

My hope is to not let any resentments build up again, by allowing 1x/week to address any issues we may have.

Our talk was good. H mentioned that sometimes my questions rub him the wrong way and I mentioned that I would like him to be more available via phone.

Thoughts?

nik