Originally Posted By: roughenough
I am starting to go out with my friends more. Most of them would condone me getting busy with some hotty. You see, I go out with friends and put myself in situations that could get me in trouble, especially if I’ve had to many drinks. This is how I look at it. I am almost 100% confident that W has been with someone else. I am GUESSING that it’s nothing long term but who knows, all this stuff can always change.

I don’t want to be unfaithful regardless of what W does. I just need to be very careful because I could do something that I shouldn’t. I won’t be inviting friends over for a game of chess or crap like that. I will continue to go out with friends and have a great time, I just need to be responsible, stay strong and be very mindful of the decisions I make.

I am aware to keep keep my eye on the end goal and I need to clearly understand that what I do right now can dramatically affect my future.


Wow Rough, it's like we're living the same life sometimes! smile I too have this same issue with most of my friends, especially the married ones! They're constantly urging me to hook up with this one or that one or this friend... And it would be SO easy to do that. But while it would be fun for a few hours, the next day wouldn't be good. We're fighting too hard to sabotage our fragile mental states at this point... Or at least that's the case in my sitch.

And the whole having a few too many drinks thing... well I've been there myself more than a few times, and while the walls start to come down a bit, I'm always able to refrain from doing anything that I'd regret.

Keep up the good fight. And keep going out with your friends and living it up, as that's what this time is all about!