Hey bustingout, good to hear from you and thanks for your response. Great to hear that you’re staying strong. As I am sure you can agree, that’s very commendable of you. In regards to the kids, you know how difficult it is!!!! My heart just sinks, my poor son!!!!! You see, daughter doesn’t quite get the ramifications of all this. I love BOTH my kids more than anything but my son, that’s my boy!!!! He’s so frekin awesome. The bond between us is so strong, it’s just amazing. Having children is the best thing in life, bar none, hands down.
I hate to see him play video games non stop for hours when he’s with W but WTF am I going to do. All I can do is influence him and give him guidance when it’s my time to have the kids. I live in the Pacific Northwest and we have some great fishing out here. I am going to take him Salmon fishing sometime soon.
In my book, I can rarely justify divorce. There’s only a couple scenarios where it’s truly a viable option. There’s nothing worse than two separated or divorced parents arguing and bad mouthing one another. What a horrible situation to put the kids in. I am glad there’s not extreme animosity between W and I. I don’t think we let our emotions get the best of us. I have every intention to keep this stance regardless of what happens between W and I. The kids come first!
I am at one of the lowest points in my life but you know what, I feel very blessed to still be somewhat level headed. I am also very thankful that God is in my life and I am closer to him then I’ve ever been before. I pray that God looks over W, cares for her, keeps her healthy, helps her find happiness and guides her to make the right decisions and to be the best mother possible.
