Next time instead of reacting in anger, calmly tell her that you were just reflecting on what you read and what you learned from it. Then ask her if she's okay and how her day was. Then just listen. Kill her with kindness to diffuse the situation.
wisdom! ^^^
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce