Wow, I haven't posted on my thread in 3 days, rare for me. Thanks for your post Arsene. BTW, I really liked your most recent comments on AT's thread, it was well said!!

I am starting to go out with my friends more. Most of them would condone me getting busy with some hotty. You see, I go out with friends and put myself in situations that could get me in trouble, especially if I’ve had to many drinks. This is how I look at it. I am almost 100% confident that W has been with someone else. I am GUESSING that it’s nothing long term but who knows, all this stuff can always change.

I don’t want to be unfaithful regardless of what W does. I just need to be very careful because I could do something that I shouldn’t. I won’t be inviting friends over for a game of chess or crap like that. I will continue to go out with friends and have a great time, I just need to be responsible, stay strong and be very mindful of the decisions I make.

I am aware to keep keep my eye on the end goal and I need to clearly understand that what I do right now can dramatically affect my future.
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Freshman class of 2012
Me(M):38
W:43
Together: 15 Married: 11
D:5
S:8
W wanted separation 5/5/12
Stopped living together 5/5/12

“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”.
Thomas Jefferson