I also need to remind myself that P being nice is a sign of P wanting to be a nice person - nothing more.

this is a good reminder. I know i have often in the past thought 'oh H is being nice, he MUST want me'

...ahhhh......no. He just wants to be a nice guy.

Hope you are well SD. I think of you every time i now think "isn't that interesting". which is a heck of a lot nowadays!

(((( ))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home