i have a question , if you were able to forgive , and keep going on with your life , how about your spouse , how it's going to take them to forget the pain that they caused you and to come over thei affair , it was a very close realtionship and my spouse for the past two years making arrangements and plans with the ow for him to get D and they get married but she recently dumped him for a wealthier man , and i can really say that he is trying his best to make it up for me , but how long it;s going to take him to come over her , especailly that it didn't come from him to leave her , it's been only a month now , and i know it's going to take time but i keep having these fears feelings that he will never get over her , and has feelings for me as he to her , i am sory to hijaking ur thread but it's really making me think of all the negative things ,my thread is under newcomers under the name saloom and i think i should move to piecing , thnx and i wish you all luck with your life
