wow! that is exactly where I am. If you reach out and ask if she is having an affair and she is not you will still not be in a positive light.She will say you are controlling her and not giving her space. I am waiting so far but it is hard I know..eventually it has to come out doesn't it? I am just assuming that my W is having one and moving on from there...maybe that is what you have to do...sorry to hear this it tears me up as well. Hold tight this ride can't last forever
