I'm NOT doing it out of spite (although it may well look that way to her).
That is what I am afraid of. All that matters is how she PERCEIVES it. Perception is reality.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce