You do still have a long way to go, yet you have come really far.
I want you to see, that you have way too much focus on the situation instead of just enjoying the little things that can add up.
Take things one day at a time, let the little things (actions) speak really loudly to you , and propel you through the times when you feel like beating your head against a wall.
Life is about the journey, not just the destination. To me, it still means something about how I get to my destination. Eventually, we will all die, and we don't get to take anything with us except for our legacy.
BD....remember that you are the one who did the work, I just helped you see the things that you couldn't/wouldn't see in yourself.
Your welcome...
And to really thank me, keep paying it forward to the others that are behind you....
That is where true gratitude really lies, and that is what this site is built on...
I'm not around much anymore, so if you need me, just give me a shout out, and I will be around as soon as I can.
You have much to be proud of, regardless the outcome of your marriage. (Although you appear to be on the right track with that).
